Hands Are Not for Hitting

Hands Are Not for Hitting

This book is a great support for parents who want to guide toddlers toward gentle behavior in a way that’s simple, kind, and effective. It gives young children clear, direct language to understand that hands are for helping—not for hurting—without using shame or punishment. The short sentences, repetition, and friendly illustrations make it easy for little ones to absorb and remember, even in the heat of the moment. What makes this book special is how it takes a challenging behavior like hitting and turns it into an opportunity to teach empathy, self-regulation, and positive connection from the very beginning.

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FAQs

The book is best suited for children aged 3 and up, but we’ve also included special tips for babies and toddlers so you can start early.

Many parents notice a difference in connection and understanding within the first couple of play sessions

No! Even just 10–15 minutes a week can make a real difference in your child’s development and your connection with them.

While solo play is great, your involvement adds a deeper layer of emotional connection and understanding. It helps you see what your child is feeling and thinking, while strengthening your bond.

Not at all! The book focuses on using what you already have at home. No fancy setups — just meaningful play.